The holiday season is finally here and if you're looking for… gift options for loved oneswhy not consider something slightly unaffordable? Yes, give it to someone sex toy may seem a little strange, but think about it: your overworked best friend will probably appreciate it more than the other candleyour friend trying to rekindle their relationship might thank you later and give it to their partner? It's a shared experience waiting to happen.
This came to my mind after watching Nancy Lem, clitoral massager ($89, originally $159) are flying off shelves during Black Friday – literally one is sold every 35 seconds. I haven't tried it myself, but considering almost half a million people already own this little lemon, it's clear there's something to the hype.
Lem looks more like a whimsical decor than a sex toy, which is part of its charm. It was designed for beginners, but non-novice people seem to like it too. It makes fun accessible rather than intimidating.
The toy uses air suction technology (which usually gets rave reviews) to slowly, deliberately build up, simulating oral pleasure. The design feels well thought out, from the softness to the way it feels in the hand.
What I like about Lem, even from the outside looking in, is that he doesn't scream “adult toy.” It's playful, discreet and gift-worthy. Leave it on the shelf and no one will blink. But it still has the features that people care about: 12 intensity settings, a quiet motor, and water resistance for anyone who loves to swim. Friendly for beginners, but clearly designed for all experience levels.
So if you're looking holiday gift it's truly unforgettable, maybe worth thinking about. It's unique, fun, and guaranteed to spark conversation in the best possible way. Nancy is currently offering 25 percent off sitewide, making it even easier to add a little citrus to someone else's (or your own) repertoire. Just use code POP25 at checkout before January 1st.
Balim Tezel (she/her) is the shopping news editor at PS and founder of Maison des Nus, a New York-based affordable luxury brand. She is a graduate of Northwestern University's Medill School of Journalism.
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