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Dear Abby: When my friend “Cheryl” for life and I talked once a week to catch up with each other's life, she really described the races of her friends in a real lively way, including a loud voice and extremely vulgar words about these friends. She even spoke about her recently Left Mother so. Her mother was not part of her life for more than 50 years, but when she returned to the stage, she developed dementia. Her mother’s habit to vulgar conversations was probably where Scheryl raised it.
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The funny thing is when we speak personally, Cheryl Not Do it. His Only by phone. Recently, I had a loss with an elderly friend, Louise. A similar situationBut it was politically eaten. Louise will call me, inspired, shouting unpleasant things about my political position. I finally hung up and blocked it on the phone. Louise is 78 years old, and his alcoholic admitted. Cheryl and I do not; We are in the mid-60s.
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I decided to write Cheryl, asking her not to use such a vulgar language when we speak because it upset me. I grew up with my father, who cursed and shouted a lot, and I vowed not to talk like that. I Not a hypocrite. A conversation with these two women caused memories of the young years. Cheryl now called me. My text There was no Medium or cruel. Is there anything that I can tell her to return my friend, or am I blocked forever? – Again and exit to Ohio
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Dear: Because you I could not Turning to the tongue of Cheryl, you were right to tell her how it made you feel and why. Bye she By blocking you, you can’t say anything that will pass. Perhaps this is Just as good. In my opinion, people who ridicule others are actually not very good at all.
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The party starts at 7 pm, and by midnight I Exhausted from standing and trying to talk at a big party. I prefer a smaller group where we can easily communicate and communicate. Sheila, as you know, tracks the parishes and departures of people in the vicinity and beyond, so I Do not be able to Hide on the eve of the New Year. I It won't The mind goes for an hour or two, but more than it is just torture. Any advice? -in the box in Florida
Dear in boxing: You are not in a trap do something that you Not I want to do. Map “Save the date” Not Command execution. Talk to Sheila and tell her that your plans for the New Year's Eve have stood in the air, and that you Not I decided whether you will do this with your family, but tell her after you receive her official invitation.
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