DEAR ABBY: Females sidle up to woman’s boyfriend on the dance floor

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Dear Abby: I In an eight -month relationship with a man who is a sexy good dancer. (I There is also a good dancer.) My dilemma, he attracts a lot of female attention on the dance floor, and sometimes women rise aggressively and dance next to us, fighting for his attention (which we usually ignore). Most of the time I do not pay attention to them, but sometimes it affects our pleasure because they annoy me.

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He says that he knows why I feel so with some, and that I should deal with it, however Identifier like. He Not actively strive for achievements, and I know were In love, but Identifier Like your advice on how to deal with it. I In surprise, how some women ignore the boundaries when You Obviously in a relationship. Man Not Do it with me. – Concerned in the West

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Dear is concerned: Your boyfriend is already doing everything possible to ignore the achievements that he receives. If you are not ready to say Hussies “retreat, dear, he is mine!” Follow his leadership. Yes, some women are aggressive tasteless And They seem desperateYou are a field Do not be able to change them, and I, too, but you can change the way to respond to the situation that you Do not be able to control.

Dear Abby: I entered into re -marriage a few years after my first wife died. I thought they were different people, but they share one consolidated line. They refuse to use the phone! Of course, they talk to the children, relatives and friends, but you don't need to contact anyone business mindField

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For example, my wife does not want to call the veterinarian, cleaning carpets service Or insurance agency. All such questions are reset on me. In addition, when I urge her, she insists on standing next to me, giving orders about what I have to say or how or with whom to talk. Please let me know how to make my wife use the phone. – Tired of this in the east

Dear is tired of this: Your wife may feel that you have more knowledge about these things than she, but still would like to get 2 cents during these business calls. I also found that sometimes men “hear” things better from another man than from a woman. Since this annoys you, the next time one of these calls should be made, stand next to her and teach her if she needs it. The term for this is the “teamwork”.

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Dear Abby: I am a woman in the mid-30s with a moderately successful career. I Well -known and respected by my leaders and colleagues. I'm trying support level of respect, professionalism And honesty every day. Nevertheless, there is one colleague whom I cannot stand. It’s just that her appearance makes my blood boil. I Not Know why its existence drives me crazy. Any advice on how to deal with this without destroying my career? – diligent worker in New York

Dear hard: I would like you to mention how close you should work with this colleague. Keep in mind that the relationship you have with people in this office are professional, not social. You Not She loves her. Interact with her as often as you, and keep your distance until the end of time, and this It should not Negatively affects your career.

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