Dear Miss lonely hearts: the wife with whom I broke up – an actress who has been an actress all her life – recently returned to me and said that she had changed. She was looking for reconciliation. She said she had changed for me. I was lonely and was hungry for sex, and I bit.
This woman is good on stage in theatrical productions, but in our marriage she played the role of a non -stop manipulator. But I was lonely, and God sees, she gives me sexual entertainment.
However, in just a few months, this so -called changed woman became just another role that she played. In the end, I told her that I want to divorce really and next time to look for a real person. She laughed and said: “After me, you will be very bored.” To which I replied: “No, I will finally feel relief.”
At the university, we both were engaged in the theater, and it was like sleeping with her that there were several different women in my life. But who did I really hold in my arms when the light went out? Who knows who she really was. I can promise you – only her therapist knows this.
Now that I finally rejected her, she pursues me like a dog, and seems to know wherever I go. Recently, it has become worse. She continues to appear at the events that I attend – as if a spy works on her – and later that night she is often drunk and knocks on my door. How can I get rid of her forever? Please help.
– Tired of this, the exchange area
Dear patient with this: If for her this is just a game, perhaps one rigidly formulated letter with a warning from a lawyer is enough to prevent her from chasing you. But if she has serious psychological problems, talk to her family for her own protection, as well as a lawyer for yours. If she really pursues you, you can achieve a judicial prohibiting court order.
Also think about finding out why you had two home drama for so long, what purpose it served, what harm it caused and what needs to be done so that both of you are completely freed from each other.
Dear Miss lonely hearts! My sister is terribly playing the piano, but considers herself wonderful.
My wife and I inherited the old piano of my mother, and every time my sister comes to me after dinner, she begins to freely fill the melodies that no one wants to hear, and at full volume.
Last night, my younger brother and his family collected things and left as soon as my sister began to play. My parents were both deaf (they were lucky), so they wondered why the family of my brother left. We knew exactly why, because they kept their ears and wanted it to end.
What is wrong with people who think that any music that they create, no matter how bad it is, is worth listening?
Family dinners were a great way to rally our family, and my mother loves to cook for us and see her grandchildren, but what can we do here?
– auditory attack, Westwood
Dear auditory assault: Deaf family musicians who love to perform at full volume can become problematic for relatives who love them and indulge them for years, but something really should return your clan a certain harmony.
Although diplomatically to convince your dissonating sister to suspend the game may be a relief, ultimately in your home it can become noticeably quiet, and the conversation may become unnatural.
If you do not have a decent music collection or stereo system, think about acquiring the Bluetooth dynamics. Then you could even have fun a little, calling the topic and asking all family members to choose the appropriate melody for playback.
You can also consider the possibility of introducing board games for entertainment and communication after dinner. Thus, you can avoid the need to use the taps for your ears and awkward early outputs.
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