DEAR ABBY: Fiance proves again and again that he’s no prince charming

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Dear Abby: I am 60 years old, divorced. I've currently been dating a Dane for a year. A few months ago he asked me to marry him and I agreed. He wants me and my daughter to move to Denmark. My daughter is 21 years old and has high functioning autism but still needs my help with her executive functions.

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A few months ago I lost my second job. I fell behind on my rent and got evicted. My daughter and I had nowhere to go, so we went to live with a friend in another state. When I asked my groom if he could help me a little, he refused and got angry, saying that didn't I want to be a daddy.

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He tells me often how much he earns and what he has in the bank. I told him that I there wasn't asking for jewelry or fashion clothing for as little as $2,000, so we I wouldn't losing our home. He told me to ask my ex-husband for money. Because he refused, my daughter and I were evicted from the house. I eventually found a second job, but the damage was already done.

Early in our relationship, I spoke openly about my daughter. most likely needed live with us and asked if this was a deal breaker. He said no. Now he wants her to leave as soon as possible. V foreign country, where is it doesn't knows the language and has its own problems. He also told me that I couldn't leave my cat. When I expressed my feelings, he got angry and told me that we were through and he there wasn't going to help me.

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I am not the kind of person who will use anyone for my own purposes. I've always worked hard. I believe that families should help each other, and since we are involved, our problems should be shared. I Not I know what to do with our relationship now. It hurts my daughter too that he doesn't I want her to be with us. He said that if she stayed, he would get his own apartment. Advice? — SHIPPING ABROAD FROM MARYLAND

DEAR GOING: How many red flags do you need? Your groom he's tight on money, even when he knows you're drowning. He is not going to live under the same roof with your daughter, who may not be able to adapt to the new society. Understand that if you move to Denmark, he Not I'm going to change. That's who he is. For the sake of your daughter and yourself, end the engagement. This is not the husband you need.

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