5 Thanksgiving Sex Positions to Try When You’re Full

With ham, potatoes, and intrusive questions from distant relatives, Thanksgiving isn't the sexiest holiday of the year. Most of the time, people are too busy eating, digesting food, or falling asleep on the couch to think about anything sex-related.

But if a second helping of stuffing makes you feel like you'd like to stuff it later, too, sex doesn't have to be ruled out entirely. With the right sexy poseThanksgiving sex is totally possible—it just might require a little creativity, minimal effort, and a locked door if you live under the same roof as your parents.

Whether pumpkin pie surprises you as an aphrodisiac or you want to head to the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, here are the best Thanksgiving sex positions to try this year. (But don't worry if you're too tired to get naked: Black Friday sex, luckily, happens, too.)

Experts featured in this article

Zachary Zane is an expert on sex and relationships #LUBELIFE.

Sarah Tomchesson certified sexuality educator and marketing director at Wand.

Mindy DeSetaPh.D., Certified Sexologist and Dating App Sexuality Educator. hilly.

Josephine Bashout tantric sex expert.

The Best Sex Positions for Thanksgiving, According to Sex Experts

Spoon position in sex

spoon is final lazy sex position. “It doesn't require much movement – just gentle pushing from the inserting partner – and it doesn't feel like shepherdess where you're bouncing up and down, which is the last thing I want to do after a big meal,” says sex and relationship expert Zachary Zane. To get into the cuddle position, lie down next to your partner, making sure you're both facing the same direction. (Yes, much like how one spoon stacks with another spoon.)

Mutual masturbation

If you're too full to have sex on Thanksgiving Day, give mutual masturbation attempt. It refers to having pleasure right next to your partner, so it doesn't require any effort other than what you want to do to yourself. “You both lie on your backs, so no one is lying on a full belly. Plus, it’s low energy but high reward,” says Zane.

Tilted stand

If standing seems too hard for a Thanksgiving sex position, certified sex educator Sarah Tomchesson recommends bent over stand position. “After a big holiday meal, no one wants to feel crushed or crushed under the weight of their body. Bent over sex allows both partners to be upright, supported, and able to breathe comfortably—without putting too much pressure on their full bellies,” Tomchesson says. To get into position, stand with your partner. The receiver must then lean over a hard surface (or bed), creating an angle that allows penetration.

Classic position for oral sex

. . . or as sexologist Mindy DeSeta, Ph.D., calls this sexual position: “The Grateful Giver.” There is no better way to express your gratitude to someone than to humiliate them. “Since you and your partner are completely satisfied with the meal or tired of tryptophan, let your partner lie down and relax,” says Dr. DeSeta. “This position is all about gratitude and generosity—take your time, pay attention to their responses, and show them how grateful you are.” To assume this position, the receiving partner should simply lie on their back with their legs slightly spread.

Soft pillow

For the man above, missionary can often be a challenging sexual position. But tantric sex expert Josephine Bashut recommends trying a softer, more supportive missionary sex position for Thanksgiving: the soft pillow. To achieve this position, simply assume a missionary sex position where the recipient places some pillows under their hips. However, instead of quick thrusts, Bashout suggests focusing on the flow of energy and emotional intimacy. “Run your fingertips, whisper affirmations, and synchronize your breathing with the rhythm,” she says.

Taylor Andrews is a senior editor at Popsugar magazine, specializing in topics including sex, relationships, dating, sexual health, mental health, travel and more. With eight years of editorial experience, Taylor has extensive experience in content creation and storytelling. Before joining PS in 2021, she worked at Cosmopolitan.